
Joel and Cynthia Brandon are two of the best people I've ever known. Parents are like that, but in this case there's more unique qualities to them that I have come to know as an adult that would fascinate even the harshest of "camp family feel good statement" critics. I didn't grow up listening to popular music. Though I eventually was opened to a new world by switching my radio to a station that played a "Mister Mister" song that I enjoyed, I grew up listening to Mozart, Beethoven, Bach, Sousa, Gershwin, Scottish pipe bands, Flanders and Swan, Stravinsky, and of course the Smothers Brothers. They had a record of "Cats" and one of Bob Dylan that I remember, but I was taught "serious" music first, at least according to my mother. As such I give credit to this a great deal for my compositional skill, though I consider it a foundation, not the final word in music that deserves respect. I also didn't read much in the way of comics (some, though), I was taught poetry, Shakespeare, and bits of the Bible (my mother would read excerpts from the book of Acts). I didn't watch sitcoms, I watched Britcoms. My father would teach me about oriental culture and my mother would teach European culture. My father would be supportive of my musical efforts with my first synthesizer, and my mother put me in piano lessons as well as church choir, and be proud but skeptical, giving me both satisfaction and a drive to prove myself; a perfect combination. I got the benefits of a classical education and the social training of a gentleman, and hopefully a smattering of writing skills along the way. While I have learned that a great deal of this knowledge is dying, it gives me the benefit of experience from many different sources. Throughout life I would hear such phrases as "all the other kids" and "well, most parents...". Generalizations indicating a sheeplike and stagnant mindset. Who wants to be like "most people"? A foundation of shared and familiar things is good, but it shouldn't permeate one's entire life. I'm glad I was raised differently and wouldn't have it any other way.
Therefore thank you, Mummy and Dad. Thank you for being the source of my creation. Thank you for being kind and patient as well as unusual and off kilter. It is one of my greatest and most constant wishes that I can show you the same love you have given me.